If you have been cheated on, or unfaithful in the previous, you will know that it can be difficult to say “I love you”. A lie will not only hurt your partner, it will also ruin your reputation as an ethical person. It can also create a web of deceit that is difficult to untangle. And, it’s just plain wrong.
Men who say “I love you” but then turn their heads away from the person they are speaking to have very little chance of actually being true to it. They also rarely look at the person they’re saying it to, which can make a man feel pressured into telling a lie. A lie is a lie because it creates pressure and hurts the man. So don’t say “I love you” before you’ve asked him to.